Two friends dating each other
I’d like to think that the second choice isn’t an option, since I’m assuming you don’t want to lose either of your friends. If they are really your best friends, they’ll hear you out and do what they can to keep your friendship intact.If you really honestly feel like they’re leaving you out, then you say something.You can’t read their minds, you don’t share a bedroom with them - so you can’t 100% know their relationship dynamics.Let them figure their own issues, they are not babies who need parental supervision.We all have our issues and cope with life differently.Sometimes I think the “normal” people are just people you don’t know well enough yet. We talked about relationships with parents, and how many girls have “daddy issues.” I don’t have dad issues. My parents married at a young age, and have a successful marriage. However, neither Jessie or I would have talked about this stuff so soon without having the therapist as a soundboard. I spent five years seeing a therapist, so this isn’t strange to me.
I also feel like I’m going to lose my two best friends… Sometimes I feel like there is no resolution for this. You have two options here: you can voice your concerns to your friends or you can try to move on and stop hanging out with them.
Say that you have no problem with their sexual orientation, but you want to continue to hang out with them without always feeling like you’re intruding on one of their private dates.
You don’t need to be mean – just be honest and clear with them.
So the only solution that is left is - move on and find some new company - you can't force anyone to be your friend, and if you will run after them, that will in a way mean that you are forcing them to be a friend - something that they don't want to do.
If their new relationship causes a run-in with authorities, that's one reason it's awkward.
So here's our tips on what to do if your buddies try to drag you into their drama. Don't Engage – You're not there to decide who was in the right when these two are fighting about drapes.